Simukudziwa mphatso zanji kwa Mwana? Chidole chofewa ndiye chisankho chabwino kwambiri

Zoseweretsa zowonjezera zakhala zikukondedwa ndi ana, makamaka tsopano popeza zoseweretsa zambiri zonyezimira zawonjezera ntchito zamagetsi, zomwe zimatha kuyenda paokha, ndipo zina zimakhala zamatsenga komanso zimatha kulankhula, zomwe zimakopa kwambiri makanda. Nthawi zina mwanayo amakhala yekha kunyumba, kapena makolo amakhala otanganidwa, mwanayo amakonda kusewera ndi zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali zomwe angathe kulankhula nazo, monga anzake.

Chifukwa chomwe ndimakonda zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali ndichifukwa ubweya wake ndi wabwino kwambiri ndipo umamva bwino ndikakhudza. Chachiwiri ndi chakuti alibe mtundu wa chisamaliro mu mtima mwawo ndi osungulumwa kwambiri, makamaka mtundu wa makolo amene amangotanganidwa ndi okha tsiku lonse. Chochitika ichi chikuwonekera makamaka m'mabanja. Mfundo yachitatu ndi yakuti ana ambiri, ambiri a atsikana, amakonda maonekedwe a zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali. Opanga awonanso izi ndikupanga zoseweretsa zamitundu yonse.

Ndipotu palibe cholakwika chilichonse ndi zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali. Timathandiziranso kugula zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali. Zomwe muyenera kuziganizira ndi ukhondo. Imafunika kuyeretsa kamodzi pa sabata, ngakhale mulibe nthawi, imayenera kuyeretsa kamodzi kwa milungu iwiri. Makanda alibe chidwi ndi ukhondo. Mwachitsanzo, mwanayo amatenga chidole pasekondi imodzi isanachitike, ndipo sekondi yotsatira amatenga chakudya ndi manja ake ndikusewera akudya. Ndiye mabakiteriya pa chidolecho amamatira ku chakudya, ndipo zinyalala za chakudya zimamatira ku chidole chamtengo wapatali.

Njira yoyeretsera ndiyo kugwiritsa ntchito mchere wodyedwa popaka pamalo othimbirira, kapena kugwiritsa ntchito ufa wa soda m'malo mwake. Ngati mukufuna kupha tizilombo toyambitsa matenda ndikutsukidwa, ndi bwino kupita kumalo osungirako zowuma nthawi zonse. Zoseweretsa zowonjezera sizingawonekere padzuwa kwa nthawi yayitali, zomwe zimapangitsa tsitsi kukhala lolimba.

Zoseweretsa zapamwamba sizongosewera. Ana amatsanzira makolo awo ndi kusamalira zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali, monga kusamalira zidole. Zikhoza kukulitsa chikondi cha mwanayo. Zoseweretsa zamtundu uliwonse zili ndi ubwino wakuti ngati sizinawonongeke, sizingapweteke mwanayo komanso zingathandizenso mwanayo kukhala wotetezeka.

Nthawi zambiri, ana masiku ano amayenera kugwira zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali ngati akugona paokha, ndikuwona zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali ngati mabwenzi awo aang'ono, kumverera ngati woyera mtima. Choncho zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali ndizoyeneranso makanda omwe amafunika kuyamba kugona okha. Inde, ngati simukudziwa mphatso yomwe mukufuna kupatsa mwana wa bwenzi lanu, ndiye kuti zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali ndizosankha zabwino. Kupatula apo, palibe mwana yemwe angakane zoseweretsa zokongola komanso zomasuka.

Pogula, muyenera kulabadira ngati zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali ndi otsika "atatu nos". Khalidwe lotsika silosavuta kudziunjikira fumbi, koma ngati kudzazidwa mkati kuli koopsa, kungayambitse kusapeza bwino kwa thupi la mwanayo. Mutha kukanda mokoma kudzaza mkati. Ngati kudzazidwa kumagawidwa mofanana komanso kofewa, izi siziri vuto. M'malo mwake, ndi "atatu-ayi" mankhwala, omwe ayenera kugulidwa mosamala.